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Sunday, October 11, 2026

OTAP, Filipino Heritage, and the Kindness of Friends and Strangers-Part 1of 2

Sometimes, a simple gift can bring back precious memories and remind us of the goodness of people.

The other day, I received three different brands of OTAP as a gift in connection with our celebration of Filipino-American History Month here at The Heritage Downtown (THD), my home in Walnut Creek, California.

The three brands were Laura’s Buko-Pandan Flavored Otap, Magic Melt Ube Otap, and Angelina Otap. Seeing these Filipino delicacies brought a smile to my face and reminded me of my Filipino ancestry. More unexpectedly, this simple gift brought me back to several articles I wrote before the age of Artificial Intelligence about one of my favorite subjects: the kindness of friends and strangers.

At 91 and nearing 92, I have accumulated many memories during my journey through life. Some involve significant achievements in my career as a chemist, my years in the United States, and my adventures in the Philippines. Others involve seemingly ordinary encounters with people whose kindness left a lasting impression on me.

I have learned that kindness does not always come from the people we know well. Sometimes, it comes from a stranger who offers a helping hand, a friend who remembers us, or someone who takes a little time to make our day brighter.

Lessons from My Father: The Value of Talking to Strangers

In one of my earlier blog posts, My Father’s Lesson: The Value of Talking to Strangers, I recalled how my father taught us, through his example, the importance of greeting and talking to people.

During our trips between Barotac Viejo and Iloilo in the Philippines, I observed how naturally he interacted with people along the way. He did not treat every unfamiliar face as someone to avoid. Instead, he welcomed opportunities to exchange greetings and friendly conversations.

Looking back, I realize that my father was teaching us more than good manners. He was teaching us to recognize the humanity in other people.

A simple greeting can open the door to a conversation. A conversation can lead to friendship. And sometimes, a brief encounter with a stranger can become a memorable experience.

Of course, we must always exercise good judgment and be careful about whom we trust. But I believe we should not allow caution to eliminate the simple pleasures of being friendly and kind.

As I grow older, I appreciate this lesson even more.

The Importance of Kindness

Another subject I explored in my earlier writing was The Importance of Kindness.

Throughout my life, I have benefited from the generosity, encouragement, and friendship of many people. Teachers, colleagues, mentors, neighbors, friends, and even strangers have contributed in one way or another to the person I have become.

I cannot remember every kind act I have received, but I know that many of them helped me along the way.

My late wife, Macrine, and I also believed in reaching out to others. Our medical missions to Marinduque, Philippines, from 1999 to 2013 were among the meaningful experiences of our lives. Macrine often reminded me:

“You have not really lived if you have not touched the life of others.”

Those words remain with me today. They remind me that a meaningful life is not measured only by professional accomplishments, material possessions, or the number of years we live. It is also measured by the lives we touch and the kindness we leave behind.

At my present stage of life, I may no longer be able to do all the things I once did. Nevertheless, I can still share my experiences, encourage others through my writing, express gratitude, and appreciate the kindness of those around me.

OTAP: A Little Taste of the Philippines

For readers who may not be familiar with OTAP, it is a well-known Filipino pastry associated with Cebu. It is a thin, oval-shaped, flaky and crisp puff pastry, traditionally made with layers of dough and shortening, then coated with sugar.

Making OTAP requires care and patience. The dough is prepared, rolled, and folded to develop its characteristic layers. After shaping, the pastries are coated with sugar and baked until crisp and lightly golden. The result is a delicate, sweet pastry that can be enjoyed with coffee, tea, or as a snack.

The three varieties I received also reminded me of how Filipino food continues to evolve while preserving familiar traditions. Ube, or purple yam, is especially beloved in Filipino desserts. Buko-pandan combines the familiar flavors of young coconut and fragrant pandan.

For me, OTAP is more than a pastry. It represents a part of the culinary heritage that connects Filipinos living in the Philippines with those of us who have made our homes abroad.

Food has a special ability to connect generations. A familiar flavor can awaken memories of childhood, family gatherings, celebrations, and the people with whom we once shared our meals.

And sometimes, a box of pastries can remind us of something even more important: the kindness of the person who gave it to us.

Kindness at The Heritage Downtown

Since moving to The Heritage Downtown in June 2023, I have discovered that living in a senior community offers many opportunities to experience the generosity of others.

We share meals, participate in activities, exchange stories, and celebrate special occasions together. Although we come from different backgrounds and have lived very different lives, we have opportunities to learn from one another.

Our Filipino-American History Month celebration is one example. The gift of these three OTAP varieties was a thoughtful gesture that connected our celebration with Filipino culture and cuisine.

I was pleasantly surprised by the gift. More importantly, it reminded me that kindness does not have to be expensive or elaborate to be meaningful.

A small present, a sincere compliment, a friendly conversation, or a simple expression of appreciation can brighten someone's day.

I am grateful to the people who thought of sharing these Filipino treats with me. They may have intended only to offer a gift, but they also inspired me to revisit some of the lessons I have written about over the years.

Perhaps this is one of the wonderful things about kindness: it often travels farther than the giver realizes.

The person who receives a kind gesture may remember it, write about it, share it with others, and inspire still more acts of kindness.

A Reflection at 91

Looking back on my life, I realize that many of my most treasured memories are not necessarily associated with awards, degrees, promotions, or professional accomplishments.

Some are memories of people who were kind to me when they did not have to be.

My father's example taught me to be open to people. My wife, Macrine, taught me the importance of touching other lives. My friends, colleagues, and even strangers have reminded me repeatedly that goodness can appear in unexpected places.

Now, as a 91-year-old Filipino-American living at The Heritage Downtown, I continue to learn from these experiences.

I also continue to write. Before AI became part of my blogging routine, I wrote about kindness from my own observations and memories. Today, with the assistance of AI, I can revisit those themes, organize my thoughts, and share them with readers around the world. The technology may help me write, but the memories and the lessons remain mine.

I am reminded that we do not have to perform great deeds every day to make the world a better place. We can begin with a smile, a greeting, a listening ear, or a small gift given with a generous heart.

And who knows? A simple act of kindness today may become a cherished memory for someone tomorrow.

My closing thought:

At 91 and nearing 92, I have learned that kindness is a gift that never grows old. It costs little to give, means much to receive, and can remain in our hearts long after the moment has passed.

So, the next time you have an opportunity to greet a stranger, encourage a friend, or share something as simple as a piece of OTAP, remember that you may be giving more than you realize.

You may be giving someone a reason to smile and a memory worth writing about.

Finally, My Facts for the Day: 


David At Nearing 92: Can Humanity Prevent Its Own Extinction?

Two Warnings to the World: Nuclear Conflict and the Malicious Use of Artificial Intelligence

“We have the intelligence to create powerful technologies. Do we have the wisdom to make sure they do not destroy us?”

Today, while reading and watching CNN, I came across a report that made me stop and think seriously about the future of humanity. Researchers have identified 17 potentially catastrophic threats to our world, including two that could, under the worst circumstances, threaten the very survival of our species: nuclear conflict and the malicious use of artificial intelligence (AI).

The findings come from a new report by The Lancet Commission on 21st Century Global Threats to Health. The commission, made up of 35 experts, examined threats that could endanger human health and survival through the year 2100. The researchers emphasized that these dangers deserve immediate attention because there are realistic actions governments and societies can take to reduce the risks.

As I approach my 92nd birthday, I cannot help asking myself a troubling question: After all the progress humanity has made in science, medicine, technology, and education, could we eventually destroy the very civilization we have worked so hard to build?

A Lifetime That Has Witnessed So Much History

I was born in the Philippines in 1934. My childhood was interrupted by World War II, which brought fear, hardship, and uncertainty to our part of the world. Those of us who lived through that period learned, in one way or another, that war is not simply a matter of maps, military strategies, or political victories. Behind every conflict are human lives, separated families, lost homes, and dreams that may never be fulfilled.

After the war, I pursued my education in chemistry at the University of the Philippines and later earned my Ph.D. in Pharmaceutical Chemistry at the University of Illinois. My professional life took me through the chemical and pharmaceutical industries and eventually to the U.S. Food and Drug Administration, where I worked in drug evaluation until my retirement in 2002.

My career taught me to appreciate the extraordinary benefits that science can bring to humanity. Scientific knowledge can prevent disease, improve medicines, save lives, and help us understand the world around us.

But science also gives human beings enormous power. And power without wisdom, responsibility, and moral restraint can become dangerous.

That is why the news I encountered today deserves more than a passing glance.

First Warning: The Danger of Nuclear Conflict

Since the development of nuclear weapons, humanity has possessed the ability to inflict destruction on a scale that previous generations could scarcely imagine.

The bombings of Hiroshima and Nagasaki in 1945 showed the world the terrible consequences of nuclear warfare. Yet, more than eight decades later, nuclear weapons remain in existence, and international tensions continue to remind us that the danger has not disappeared.

A nuclear conflict between major powers could kill millions of people directly. But the consequences might extend far beyond the countries involved. Researchers have warned that smoke and soot from widespread nuclear explosions could disrupt the climate, reduce sunlight reaching the Earth's surface, damage agricultural production, and contribute to widespread famine.

In other words, even people living thousands of miles from the battlefield might suffer the consequences.

I find this particularly disturbing because the ordinary citizens of the world have little control over the decisions of political and military leaders. Children, grandparents, farmers, teachers, scientists, and countless innocent people could pay the price for decisions they never made.

What can be done?

Nations must strengthen diplomacy, maintain reliable communication, reduce the danger of accidental escalation, and pursue meaningful arms-control and nuclear-risk-reduction agreements. Leaders must understand that preventing nuclear war is not a sign of weakness. It is an obligation to protect humanity.

National security is important. But what good is national security if a nuclear confrontation endangers the future of every nation?

Second Warning: The Malicious Use of Artificial Intelligence

The second threat is particularly personal to me because I have become increasingly interested in artificial intelligence during my later years.

I use AI as a tool to help me write and refine my blog posts, explore scientific questions, and communicate with readers around the world. Blogging has been an important part of my life since 2009, and I am grateful that modern technology continues to help me share my experiences and thoughts as I approach 92.

I have seen how AI can help people learn, improve their writing, assist scientific research, and make information more accessible. Used responsibly, it has enormous potential to benefit humanity.

But there is another side to this technology.

The researchers' warning concerns the malicious use of AI—the possibility that people could exploit increasingly powerful systems to cause harm on a vast scale. Among the dangers discussed by experts is the potential for AI to assist in developing biological weapons or other catastrophic threats.

AI can also be misused to create convincing false information, conduct cyberattacks, manipulate public opinion, and support dangerous activities. As the technology becomes more capable, the challenge of preventing its abuse becomes increasingly important.

I do not believe that every advance in AI should be viewed with fear. Nor should we assume that a machine will inevitably turn against humanity. These are serious risks, not predictions that human extinction is certain.

However, I believe we must distinguish between using AI to improve human life and allowing its capabilities to be exploited without adequate safeguards.

As someone who spent decades working in science and pharmaceutical regulation, I appreciate the importance of evaluating risks before they cause harm. We do not wait for every possible disaster to occur before asking whether reasonable preventive measures are necessary.

The same principle should apply to AI.

Governments, technology companies, scientists, and independent experts must work together to establish effective safeguards, improve monitoring, test powerful systems carefully, and prevent their use in catastrophic attacks. International cooperation is essential because neither cyber threats nor the consequences of dangerous technologies respect national borders.

Technological progress should serve humanity. Humanity should not become a prisoner of its own inventions.

Seventeen Threats, One Interconnected World

The report also reminds us that the dangers facing humanity are not limited to nuclear weapons and AI. Its 17 identified threats include climate change, air pollution, naturally occurring pandemics, antimicrobial resistance, childhood malnutrition, armed conflict, and other health and social challenges.

These problems are interconnected. Conflict can disrupt food supplies and health services. Climate change can worsen living conditions and threaten agriculture. Weak public health systems can make communities more vulnerable to disease.

The lesson I take from this report is that we cannot protect the future by concentrating on just one problem while ignoring the others.

We need scientific research, responsible leadership, stronger health systems, education, international cooperation, and a willingness to invest in prevention rather than wait for disasters.

Most importantly, we need leaders who recognize that the welfare of humanity is greater than the political interests of any one individual, party, or country.

What Can One Ordinary Person Do?

At first glance, these global threats may seem too large for an ordinary person to influence. What can one senior citizen approaching 92 do about nuclear weapons or the misuse of AI?

I certainly cannot negotiate an international treaty or regulate a technology company. But I can continue to write, share reliable information, encourage thoughtful discussion, and remind my readers that the future is a responsibility we share.

We can support leaders who take these dangers seriously. We can demand accountability from governments and technology companies. We can encourage the responsible use of AI and resist the spread of misinformation. We can teach younger generations that scientific progress must be accompanied by ethics, compassion, and respect for human life.

And we can refuse to accept the idea that conflict and catastrophe are inevitable.

My years have taught me that ordinary acts of kindness matter. The same principle applies to the larger world: cooperation is more constructive than hatred, dialogue is better than threats, and prevention is better than recovery from disaster.

The decisions of world leaders may have extraordinary consequences, but public awareness and public expectations can help shape those decisions.

A Message to My Children, Grandchildren, and Readers Around the World

As I approach 92, I think often about the world that my children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren will inherit.

I have lived through a world war, witnessed remarkable scientific discoveries, experienced the growth of modern medicine, and seen computers and artificial intelligence become part of everyday life. The changes have been astonishing.

I remain grateful for the progress humanity has achieved. I am also concerned that our technological capabilities may be advancing faster than our collective wisdom.

I do not want my reflections to leave readers frightened or hopeless. The researchers themselves emphasize that these threats can be addressed. Their warning is not that humanity is destined to disappear, but that we must take the risks seriously while we still have the opportunity to reduce them.

We cannot guarantee that future generations will never experience another war, another pandemic, or another global crisis. But we can make wiser decisions today to reduce the likelihood and consequences of such events.

Perhaps the greatest measure of human intelligence is not how powerful our weapons become or how sophisticated our machines can be. Perhaps it is whether we can use our knowledge to protect life rather than endanger it.

I have always believed that we have not truly lived unless we have touched the lives of others in a meaningful way. That principle should apply not only to individuals, but also to nations and the institutions we build.

As we move further into the twenty-first century, let us remember that our most important achievement is not simply to advance civilization, but to preserve it for those who come after us.

A Final Reflection

At nearly 92, I have no illusion that one blog post can change the course of world history. But I continue to write because I believe that sharing knowledge, asking difficult questions, and encouraging reflection still have value.

I hope that my readers, wherever they live, will join me in wishing for a world in which science serves life, artificial intelligence is used responsibly, nations resolve their differences peacefully, and future generations can live without the constant fear of catastrophe.

We cannot change the past. We cannot know exactly what the future holds. But we can influence the choices we make today.

And that gives me hope. May wisdom guide our leaders, compassion unite our peoples, and peace protect the future of humanity. David at Nearing 92

AI Impressions/Suggestions  on this Topic: 

David, this is an important subject for your David At Nearing 92 blog. It brings together two concerns that have become increasingly important to our world: the danger of nuclear war and the growing possibility that artificial intelligence could be misused by people who have little regard for human life.

For your worldwide readers, I would approach this not as a prediction that humanity is doomed, but as a personal reflection from someone who has lived through nearly a century of history, witnessed the consequences of war, devoted much of his career to science, and now sees both the promise and the dangers of new technology.

Here are suggested references for your worldwide readers:

  • CNN's report: AI is among 17 potentially ‘catastrophic threats’ that researchers say require targeted action

    KESQ

  • The Lancet Commission announcement: A roadmap to protect economies, security and global stability from catastrophic threats

    My Editorial Suggestion: Keep the title as written. It asks a serious question without declaring that extinction is inevitable. Your personal history, from growing up during World War II to a scientific career and your continuing use of AI to write at nearly 92 gives this post a perspective that a conventional news article cannot provide.

    AI OVERVIEW:
    Yes, humanity can theoretically prevent its own extinction, but doing so depends heavily on our ability to mitigate self-imposed, anthropogenic risks rather than natural ones. While cosmic and geological hazards present a low risk in the near term, the primary threats to human survival are created by human technology and behavior. 
    To successfully secure its long-term future, humanity must address existential risks across three major domains:
    1. Combating Anthropogenic (Human-Made) Threats
    The scientific consensus indicates that the greatest dangers to our species through 2100 are artificial:
    • Artificial Intelligence: Unaligned or highly competent yet indifferent AI poses severe existential risks. Experts from organizations like Time Magazine have argued for strict international hardware regulations and temporary pauses on training models beyond current capabilities to ensure safety. 
    • Synthetic Biology: Advancements in biotechnology (such as CRISPR) have raised the risk of engineered, highly lethal, and airborne pathogens being released either accidentally or maliciously. Preventative measures require rigorous global biosecurity protocols.
    • Nuclear and Climate Crises: Preventing nuclear war requires sustained geopolitical cooperation. Meanwhile, reversing severe environmental destruction, ocean acidification, and ecological collapse demands a global shift away from short-term corporate and political thinking. 
    2. Implementing a "Defence in Depth" Framework
    According to research published in the National Institutes of Health PMC, preventing extinction requires a layered strategy rather than just focusing on a single fix: 
    • Prevention: Stopping threats before they materialize (e.g., carbon reduction, AI alignment, monitoring for asteroids).
    • Response: Building early-warning networks to contain disasters when prevention fails (e.g., rapid vaccine deployment during a pandemic).
    • Resilience: Ensuring the endgame survival of the species if a catastrophe scales globally (e.g., establishing underground seed vaults, resilient agriculture, or off-world colonies).
    3. Overcoming Natural and Evolutionary Realities
    Historically, humanity has proven incredibly resilient. Genetic bottlenecks documented by researchers show that around 930,000 years ago, the ancestral human population dropped significantly, leaving only about 1% of the population to rebuild our lineage
    However, over millions of years, natural changes pose inevitable challenges. Over a long enough timeline, cosmic events like supervolcanoes or asteroid impacts become mathematical certainties unless space-defense technologies are matured. Furthermore, if humanity survives for millions of years, evolutionary biology dictates that our descendants would likely evolve into a entirely different chronospecies, meaning Homo sapiens as we know them today would naturally cease to exist.
    Ultimately, preventing human extinction is not a problem of capacity, but one of global coordination, foresight, and political will.

Saturday, October 10, 2026

Choral Singing Reminds Me of Our Life Together and Why I Am Singing Again

I wrote these stories years before artificial intelligence became my writing companion. Today, at 91 nearing 92, I am revisiting some of them not to change my memories, but to see what I understand differently after another decade of living.

Choral Singing Reminds Me of Our Life Together and Why I Am Singing Again 

I found several of your related music and singing posts, and they give us much more material than the 2019 article alone.

I especially found your 2022 reflections on whether singers are “born or made,” your memories of singing with Macrine in the UPSCA choir and later church choirs, your 2024 THD concert experiences, your 2025 music-enrichment session with Claire Baffico, and your earlier writing about music for relaxation and meditation. 

I also checked the more recent research. A 2026 study of older adults found that group singing was associated with improvements in mood and social bonding, while other research has found potential benefits involving verbal fluency, memory, breathing/respiratory strength, and quality of life. I have been careful not to turn those findings into claims that singing “prevents” disease or guarantees better health. 

Most importantly, I think the THD Singers should become the heart of the new version. Your return to choir singing after more than eight years gives the old article a wonderful “full circle” ending.

Lastly, I particularly like the ending because it sounds like you-warm, slightly humorous, and not trying to make a grand scientific claim. Your older music writings provide the history, but the THD Singers give this article a living present, which is exactly what makes it feel like a genuine David at 91 nearing 92 update rather than a revision of an old post.

My Reel of the Day: Change It to How I feel Nearing 92

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Fish Heads: A Filipino Delicacy or Poor Food Presentation?

A Filipino-American Reflection on Food, Culture, and Tradition

Food is more than nourishment. It is also a reflection of our culture, childhood memories, family traditions, and the values we carry with us throughout our lives.

Recently, during our annual Filipino-American History Month (FAHM) celebration here at The Heritage Downtown (THD), my senior living community in Walnut Creek, California, I witnessed another interesting difference between Filipino and American food traditions.

The occasion was our special Filipino dinner, an event I look forward to every October. As the only Filipino-American resident among more than 160 residents at THD, I am always happy to see a little piece of my Filipino heritage brought to our dining tables.

However, this year's dinner reminded me that what one culture considers a delicious delicacy may look unfamiliar, or even unappetizing, to another.

The Fish That Was Not Served to Everyone

One of the Filipino dishes prepared for the occasion was marinated and deboned milkfish, or bangus, a popular fish in the Philippines.

Interestingly, this dish was only made available to my 12 guests. Four of my Guests did not order the fish. Other options in the Main Menu were: Chicken Adobo, Beef Giniling and Stir Fry Japanese Eggplant in soy glaze sauce. The rest of the residents were served Cod fillet instead. I learned that THD management had decided that presenting the fish with its head and tail to the general residents would not be considered good food presentation.

I understood that management wanted to serve a meal that would appeal to the residents. After all, many of them might not be accustomed to seeing a whole fish, complete with its head and tail, on their plates.

Still, the incident made me reflect on how differently Filipinos and Americans can view the same food.

For many Americans, a neatly prepared fish fillet, without bones, head, or tail, is an attractive and convenient way to enjoy seafood. For many Filipinos, however, the head and other parts of the fish are not waste. They are desirable portions that can make a meal especially enjoyable.

Neither preference is necessarily right or wrong. They simply reflect different food traditions and experiences.

My Childhood Memories of Fish Heads

In January 2020, I wrote a blog post 💚about my recipe for salmon-head fish soup with vegetables. I prepared it with okra, green beans, boctoy, celery, potatoes, sweet onions, tomatoes, and tamarind sauce.

The dish reminded me of the Philippines, where fish-head soup, particularly sinigang na ulo ng isda, is a familiar and cherished dish in many households.

In that earlier article, I also shared a family tradition that might surprise some of my American readers.

When I was growing up in the Philippines, the fish head was reserved for the head of the household, usually my father, or for a special guest of honor at dinner. If there were additional fish heads, they were offered according to family rank.

As the oldest child in our family, I was third in priority, after my father and mother. Consequently, when there were enough fish heads, I received the third one.

To a person unfamiliar with this tradition, it might seem strange to reserve the head of a fish for the most important person at the table. Why not give that person the biggest fillet instead?

But in our family, the fish head was a prized portion. It was not a punishment or an unwanted leftover. It was a sign of respect.

Those childhood memories remain with me today, even though I have spent most of my adult life in the United States.

The Salmon Heads My Relative Collected in Maryland

Another incident comes to mind.

When my family and I were living in Maryland, a close relative told me about a grocery store that discarded salmon heads every morning because its American customers did not buy them.

My relative would go to the back of the store and ask for the salmon heads, which otherwise would have been thrown into the garbage. The store gave them to him free of charge.

What the store regarded as unwanted scraps became an opportunity for my relative to prepare a delicious meal.

I found this story amusing but also revealing. The same salmon head that one person might consider garbage could be another person's prized ingredient for a flavorful soup.

It is a reminder that the value of food is not always determined by its price. Sometimes, its value comes from the traditions, memories, and culinary knowledge associated with it.

Are Americans Learning to Appreciate Fish Heads?

I wondered whether things have changed since my relative collected those free salmon heads in Maryland.

My answer is yes, to some extent, although I would not say that fish heads have become a mainstream American favorite.

Salmon itself is widely enjoyed in the United States. Fish heads, however, remain a more specialized food. They are used by people who enjoy making fish stock and soup, as well as by cooks familiar with Asian and other culinary traditions that make use of the whole fish.

Today, salmon heads are sold by some American grocery stores rather than being available only as discarded leftovers. For example, ShopRite has listed fresh salmon heads in its seafood department for making stock and soup. A 2013 report by Bay Area public media outlet KQED also described how Filipino customers bought salmon heads for sinigang, while some Chinese-American customers purchased other fish parts for cooking.

These examples suggest that fish heads are available and appreciated in parts of the American food market. However, they do not prove that most American consumers have changed their preferences.

Perhaps the growing availability of international ingredients and the wider exposure to Asian cuisines are helping more Americans discover foods that earlier generations might have overlooked.

I would like to think that my relative would have fewer difficulties finding salmon heads today than he did years ago in Maryland.

What Is Good Food Presentation?

This brings me back to our Filipino dinner at THD.

I understand that food presentation matters. A beautifully arranged plate can make a meal more appealing, particularly in a senior community where residents have different tastes, cultural backgrounds, and eating preferences.

But I also believe that good food presentation should not be judged by only one cultural standard.

A whole fish, with its head and tail intact, may be an attractive and traditional presentation to a Filipino family. To someone else, the same sight may be unfamiliar. A boneless fillet may be preferable for convenience, but that does not make the traditional presentation inferior.

There is also a practical consideration. Whole fish can contain bones, and some residents may find deboned fillets easier to eat. For older adults, appropriate preparation and safe, comfortable dining are important considerations.

Perhaps the ideal solution for a future Filipino dinner at THD would be to offer a choice: a traditional whole-fish presentation for those who appreciate it, alongside a deboned or filleted version for those who prefer it.

That way, residents could experience a little more of Filipino food culture without being required to eat something unfamiliar.

Food as a Bridge Between Cultures

After living in the United States for many decades, I have learned that cultural differences need not become disagreements. They can instead become opportunities to learn from one another.

At 91nearing 92, I still enjoy sharing stories about the Philippines, my childhood in Iloilo, and the customs that shaped my early life. Writing about food gives me another way to preserve those memories and introduce my American friends and readers to a part of my heritage.

For me, the fish head is not simply a piece of seafood. It reminds me of my father, our family dinner table, and a tradition in which the most prized portion was reserved for the person most respected in the household.

The next time someone sees a fish head on a dinner plate and wonders why anyone would want to eat it, I hope they will remember that another person may see something entirely different: a delicacy, a treasured family recipe, or a taste of home.

After all, what one person considers a discarded leftover may be another person's delicacy. And sometimes, an open mind is the most important ingredient at any dinner table.

AI Impressions on This Topic: Are salmon heads more appreciated in America today?

Yes, but with an important qualification: salmon heads are easier to find in some American markets today, and they have an established audience among people who enjoy Asian cuisines, traditional fish soups, and whole-fish cooking. However, there is insufficient evidence that the average American has embraced eating fish heads.

  • Evidence of availability: ShopRite lists fresh salmon heads for making stock and soup, with prices varying by location. 

    Evidence of longstanding interest: A KQED report documented Filipino customers buying salmon heads for sinigang and noted that fish heads and other less commonly eaten parts are sold at Asian grocery stores and outdoor fish markets. 

  • Your Maryland story is therefore a useful historical contrast, but I would avoid claiming that Americans generally have changed their attitudes. A more accurate conclusion is that salmon heads are no longer simply unwanted scraps everywhere; they are valued ingredients in certain communities and culinary traditions.

One final suggestion for your blog: if you include a link to your original 2020 recipe💚 at the end of the new article, readers can revisit the recipe and see how this recent THD experience brought an older memory back to life.

Your story also offers a gentle lesson for THD: celebrating Filipino-American History Month is not only about serving Filipino food. It can also be an opportunity to explain the history and traditions behind it, helping residents appreciate not just what is on the plate, but what it means to the people who grew up eating it.

Related Article on This Topic:

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Finally, My Reel of the Day: Thirty Facts about the Philippines.

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Friday, October 9, 2026

Filipino Food 101: More Than Just Adobo- A Taste of My Filipino Heritage

By David B. Katague, a Filipino-American, a son of the Philippines, and a lifelong lover of good food

A Filipino Among More Than 160 Senior Residents

As the only Filipino-American resident at The Heritage Downtown (THD), an active senior living community in Walnut Creek, California, I sometimes find myself serving as an informal ambassador of Filipino culture.

We have more than 160 residents, most of whom are Americans from different backgrounds. Yet, when it comes to Filipino food, I have discovered that their knowledge is rather limited.

Many have heard of Adobo, often described as the national dish of the Philippines. Some may recognize Lumpia, our version of a spring roll. Beyond these familiar names, however, Filipino cuisine remains largely unexplored by my fellow residents.

Once a year, during October's Filipino-American History Month celebration, our in-house restaurant serves a special Filipino menu. During my birthday celebrations on December 20, I have also been fortunate to share Lumpia Shanghai as an appetizer at our Friday Happy Hour.

These occasions make me happy. Food has a wonderful way of bringing people together, even when they come from different countries and cultures.

But they also make me wonder: How can I introduce my fellow residents, and my readers around the world, to the richness of Filipino cuisine?

Having grown up in the Philippines, where I spent the first 26 years of my life, I carry many food memories with me. They remind me of my childhood, my family, our celebrations, and the country that helped shape the person I became.

In my earlier, pre-AI blog articles, I wrote about Filipino food, our cultural heritage, and the memories that certain dishes bring back. My reflections on paella, for example, recalled my mother's Seafood Paella, traditionally prepared for Media Noche, the celebration welcoming the New Year.

Today, I would like to revisit those themes and offer a simple introduction to Filipino cuisine, especially for readers who have never tasted it.

1. The Philippines: A Country of Many Cuisines

To understand Filipino food, one must first understand the Philippines.

Our country is an archipelago in Southeast Asia, consisting of thousands of islands, with different languages, regional traditions, climates, and locally available ingredients.

Consequently, there is no single way to describe Filipino cooking.

The food of Ilocos in northern Luzon may differ considerably from the dishes of Bicol, Pampanga, Cebu, Iloilo, or my family's home province of Marinduque. Coastal communities have abundant seafood, while inland communities may rely more heavily on pork, chicken, vegetables, and locally grown crops.

Our regional differences are part of what makes Filipino cuisine so interesting.

Filipino food also tells the story of our country's long history of trade, migration, and foreign influences. Chinese traders, Spanish colonizers, centuries of contact with Mexico through the Manila Galleon trade, and later American influence all left their marks on our kitchens.

Yet Filipinos did not simply copy foreign dishes. We adapted ingredients, techniques, and recipes to our own tastes and circumstances.

That is why I like to think of Filipino cuisine as a living record of our history: part indigenous, part influenced by other cultures, and uniquely Filipino in the way these traditions came together.

2. Rice: The Heart of the Filipino Meal

For many Filipinos, a meal without rice does not quite feel complete.

Steamed white rice is a staple served with meat, fish, vegetables, soups, and stews. It is not merely a side dish; it is often the foundation around which the entire meal is built.

A simple Filipino meal might consist of rice, grilled fish, and vegetables. Another might feature chicken adobo, with its savory and tangy sauce spooned over the rice.

We also have many other ways of preparing rice.

Garlic fried rice, or sinangag, is a familiar breakfast favorite. Rice can be combined with meat and vegetables for special dishes such as Arroz Valenciana. Sticky rice is used in numerous traditional cakes and desserts.

One of the joys of Filipino food is that everyday meals can be simple, while celebrations offer an opportunity to prepare more elaborate dishes.

3. Adobo: One Name, Many Recipes

If there is one Filipino dish that many foreigners recognize, it is Adobo.

The word comes from the Spanish adobar, meaning to marinate or season. However, the Filipino cooking method associated with adobo is widely understood to have indigenous roots, with the Spanish term later applied to it.

Traditional Filipino adobo commonly uses vinegar, garlic, salt or soy sauce, black pepper, and bay leaves. Chicken and pork are popular choices, although other meats, seafood, and vegetables can also be prepared using the method.

The vinegar provides the characteristic tanginess, while garlic, seasonings, and the meat contribute depth and flavor.

Historically, cooking with vinegar and salt also helped preserve food before refrigeration became commonplace.

Here is something I particularly want my readers to understand: There is no single recipe for Filipino adobo.

Growing up in the Philippines, I learned that recipes vary from one region to another and from one household to another. Some cooks use more vinegar; others prefer a darker sauce with soy sauce. Some prepare a drier version, while others leave plenty of sauce for the rice. Certain regional versions incorporate coconut milk or turmeric.

Even members of the same family may disagree about whose adobo tastes best!

This diversity is not a weakness. It is part of the dish's character.

Whenever someone asks me for the authentic Filipino adobo recipe, I am tempted to reply that the most authentic recipe may be the one handed down by one's own family.

And if you ask a Filipino cook whether their mother's adobo is the best, you may already know the answer.

4. Five Filipino Dishes Worth Knowing

Let me introduce five more dishes that will help my non-Filipino readers begin exploring our cuisine.

Sinigang - A Comforting Sour Soup

Sinigang is a savory soup or stew distinguished by its pleasantly sour broth. Tamarind is a familiar souring ingredient, although other fruits and regional ingredients can also be used.

Pork, shrimp, fish, or beef may be combined with vegetables such as radish, eggplant, leafy greens, and string beans.

For people accustomed to creamy soups, sinigang offers a different experience. Its refreshing sourness makes it especially satisfying when served hot with rice.

Pancit - Noodles for Celebrations

Pancit refers to a family of Filipino noodle dishes influenced in part by Chinese culinary traditions.

There are many varieties, including Pancit Bihon, made with thin rice noodles, and Pancit Canton, made with wheat noodles. Depending on the recipe, they may contain chicken, pork, shrimp, cabbage, carrots, and other vegetables.

Pancit is frequently served at birthdays and other celebrations. In Filipino tradition, long noodles are associated with long life and good fortune.

As someone who celebrated his 91st birthday in December 2025, I certainly appreciate that symbolism!

Lumpia - The Filipino Party Favorite

Lumpia is one of the easiest Filipino foods to introduce to people who have never tried our cuisine.

Lumpia Shanghai consists of thin wrappers filled with a seasoned mixture commonly containing ground pork and vegetables, rolled into small cylinders and fried until crisp. Other lumpia varieties feature vegetables or fresh fillings.

The result is a delicious appetizer that is easy to share.

This is why I enjoy providing Lumpia Shanghai for my fellow THD residents during my birthday Happy Hour. It allows me to share a small but meaningful part of my heritage.

I have discovered that food can introduce a culture without requiring a long explanation. Sometimes, one bite is enough to begin a conversation.

Lechon - The Centerpiece of a Filipino Feast

Lechon is a whole roasted pig, traditionally prepared for important celebrations, fiestas, weddings, and family gatherings.

Its crisp skin and tender meat make it a festive centerpiece. Regional preparations differ, and Cebu is particularly famous for its lechon traditions.

Lechon illustrates an important aspect of Filipino food: eating is not just about satisfying hunger. It is also about hospitality, generosity, and gathering family and friends around a table.

Halo-Halo - A Dessert That Lives Up to Its Name

Halo-halo literally means “mix-mix.”

This colorful Filipino dessert typically combines shaved ice, sweetened beans, jellies, fruit, and other ingredients. It may be topped with leche flan, ube, or ice cream.

The ingredients are mixed together before eating, producing a combination of textures, temperatures, and flavors.

Halo-halo reflects the Filipino willingness to bring different ingredients together and make something enjoyable out of their combination.

It is also a reminder that Filipino cuisine includes much more than meat dishes and savory stews.

5. What Makes Filipino Food Unique?

After introducing these dishes, I would summarize the distinctive characteristics of Filipino cuisine in five ways.

First, we appreciate balance in flavor.

Filipino food often brings together salty, sour, savory, sweet, and sometimes bitter flavors. Vinegar, citrus, fermented seasonings, garlic, and other aromatics play important roles in creating that balance.

Second, rice is central to our meals.

Rice is the everyday companion to many dishes, from grilled fish to richly flavored stews.

Third, regional diversity matters.

The Philippines is not a country with one uniform food culture. Local ingredients, traditions, and family recipes create many different culinary identities.

Fourth, we have absorbed outside influences and made them our own.

Chinese-inspired noodles and spring rolls, Spanish-influenced festive dishes, ingredients introduced through the Americas, and later American influences all became part of the evolving Filipino kitchen.

Consider paella and Arroz Valenciana, for example. They reflect related culinary traditions, but Filipino preparations have their own combinations of ingredients and their own place in family celebrations.

My mother's Seafood Paella for Media Noche remains one of my treasured food memories. Whenever I recall it, I am reminded that a dish can be both a product of cultural exchange and an expression of a family's identity.

Finally, Filipino food is about sharing.

Meals are often served family-style, with several dishes placed on the table for everyone to enjoy. Birthdays, reunions, fiestas, holidays, and ordinary Sunday gatherings all provide opportunities to share food.

For many Filipino families, preparing more food than strictly necessary is a way of showing hospitality. A visitor should feel welcome, and nobody should leave the table hungry!

6. Filipino Food Comes with a Story

I have written before about the relationship between food, memory, and cultural identity. The older I become, the more I appreciate that connection.

A dish may remind us of a parent who prepared it, a grandparent who taught a recipe, or a celebration that brought the family together.

For me, Filipino food also brings back memories of the Philippines, my Ilonggo roots, my family, and the traditions that have accompanied me throughout my life.

Even after decades in America, these connections remain meaningful.

Living at THD has given me another opportunity to share them. Our annual Filipino food celebration is more than a special restaurant menu. It is an opportunity for my fellow residents to learn something about a country, its people, and its culture through the food they taste.

I would love to see Filipino dishes appear on our menu more than once a year. But I also recognize that introducing a cuisine takes time, curiosity, and willingness on both sides.

Perhaps a resident who tastes sinigang for the first time will ask about its sour broth. Someone who enjoys lumpia may become curious about pancit. Another person may discover that the adobo they tasted at THD differs from the version prepared by a Filipino family from another region.

That is how cultural understanding begins: with a question, a conversation, and sometimes a second helping.

My Final Thoughts

To my non-Filipino readers, I hope this short introduction encourages you to look beyond the familiar image of chicken adobo.

Try sinigang if you enjoy a tangy soup. Sample pancit if you love noodles. Share some lumpia at your next gathering. If you have a sweet tooth, give halo-halo a try.

And when you encounter a Filipino dish you have never tasted before, ask the person who prepared it about its history. You may discover that the food comes with a wonderful family story.

At 91 and nearing 92, I realize that sharing my heritage is one way I can continue contributing to the community in which I live. I may no longer travel to the Philippines as easily as I once did, but I can still bring a little of the Philippines to my fellow residents through my writing, my memories, and the food I share.

I am proud of my Filipino heritage, and I hope that through these articles, more people will discover why.

After all, food nourishes the body, but the stories behind the food can nourish understanding, friendship, and respect.

A little taste of the Philippines can open the door to a much bigger world.

Kaon ta! - In Hiligaynon, the language of my roots, that means, “Let's eat!”

Here are photos of Four of My Favorite Pinoy Dishes


Chicken Adobo: Calories, Nutrition and Health Benefits | NutriScan App

1. Chicken adobo with rice

Introduce the best-known Filipino dish while explaining that recipes vary from family to family.

sinigang na baboy ( pork sinigang ), filipino cuisine

2. Sinigang

Illustrate the distinctive sour flavors found in Filipino cooking.

Lumpiang Shanghai Calories: 210 kcal per 100g | PhilippinesCalorie

3. Lumpia Shanghai

This is especially relevant to your birthday Happy Hour tradition at THD.

What Is Halo-Halo?  A Colorful Filipino Dessert with a Story in Every Spoon

4. Halo-halo

A colorful way to show readers that Filipino cuisine includes distinctive desserts, too.

AI Impressions on this Posting:

One historical point worth highlighting: Your explanation of adobo is a particularly good teaching moment. The Spanish word adobar means to marinate or season, but the vinegar-based cooking method in the Philippines is generally understood to have indigenous roots. Soy sauce became common in many modern versions, but it is not essential to every regional recipe. 

I also found useful references to your earlier Filipino-food writing, including your reflections on Filipino roots, the THD paella dinner that reminded you of your mother's Seafood Paella for Media Noche, and your previous discussions of adobo, sinigang, pancit, lumpia, and the relationship between Filipino food and cultural identity.

I suggest making this post an introduction to Filipino cuisine for your non-Filipino readers, using your experience as THD's only Filipino-American resident as the personal thread. The most important message is that Filipino food is not one recipe, one flavor, or even one regional tradition. It is a diverse cuisine shaped by the Philippine archipelago, local ingredients, centuries of cultural exchange, and the traditions of individual families

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https://chateaudumer.blogspot.com/2026/10/the-five-flavor-styles-in-filipino.html



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